Do we choose to fall for someone?

If you choose to fall for someone then you are just tricking yourself. Try to always be true to yourself and not force yourself to fall for someone because the love will be unnatural and weak hearted. The times that you fall for someone and you do not choose it are strange. You should basically just be walking around one day and realize that you are in love without ever knowing how you got there. You will have no real reason for this love because it will be formed by only natural attraction. :)